How to Warm Up a Fleshlight


Now that you’ve gotten your hands on your first pocket pussy, there are a couple of things to consider. Using a Fleshlight looks simple, I know. There’s an opening on one end that needs to be filled up by your dick.

Looks pretty straightforward, right?

Well, not quite.

While the devices themselves can be and are used on their own, no one’s stopping you from finding creative ways of making your orgasm last longer or feel better.

On the contrary, if you’re someone who likes masturbathing, getting a shower mount will save you a lifetime of worries about accidentally breaking the Fleshlight if you get too rowdy. Or, maybe you’re someone who prefers stand-fucking. This is where the tripod method comes in handy.

Now, for all those inexperienced guys whose first pussy experience is the pocket, a real life one feels much different. Even if you’re used to fucking women and Fleshlights, the latter will have one immediate disadvantage in that it’s never warm enough.

See, when you actually go inside a vagina, it’s like getting absorbed into a warm, moist cushion. No matter what kind or how much lube you’re using, it’ll never feel like the real deal.

That is, until you realize: you can warm it up!

It’s not an exact science, nor is it anything revolutionary, but it hits the spot once you learn how to do it. Thankfully, you don’t have to spend a fortune on this – there are at-home inventions that will get the job done for free.

Let’s go to town!
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Warm Bath

When I say warm, I mean warm. You don’t want to cook the toy or your dick, so stay away from boiling water at all costs. Just fill your sink with warm water, remove the sleeve from its case and pop it in to soak for 5-10 minutes.

After that, rinse it with hot water (quickly) so that it retains the heat, wrap it with a towel so that the warmth stays in and apply your lube of choice. That way you’ll get both the Fleshlight and the lube warm enough to replicate the inside of a coochie.

Alternatively, keep a bucket of hot water to dip your pocket pussy in and out of so you can prolong the sensation.

Either way, the rule goes: warm it, lube it, pound it!

Hair dryer

Another effective way of getting the Fleshlight warm enough for penetration station is by turning on the blow dry. A hair dryer is a long-lasting and pretty effective way of keeping the pocket pussy warm.

It’s basically an advanced way of just blowing hot air into the sleeve. But because you’re dealing with a lot of heat at once, make sure to keep the sleeve at a safe distance – if you don’t want to end up with a melted pocket pussy!

Otherwise, you can opt for the ‘cold’ setting on the hair dryer to make sure you’re not overheating the device.

Just The Lube

Obviously, a pussy with warm wetness is the dream. Getting the sleeve and the lube warm is the closest replica to that. However, if you’re unsure about warming up the sleeve, heating up the lube on its own can be an excellent alternative!

Fill a glass with hot water (or microwave it to play around with the heat you want) and put an unopened bottle of lube inside. Wait between 10-15 minutes until you see the goo get thinner in consistency and obviously hotter in touch – and voila! You’ve successfully created a pussy juice dupe!

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In case you don’t find the idea of DIY methods attractive or just want a device designed for your pleasure, going for sleeve warmers is just the thing to do. I bought one of the first models on the market years ago – the Quickshot Sleeve Warmer.

In essence, it’s just a long pole used to literally impale your Fleshlight on, which then raises the temperature, heating your toy up. The one big advantage store-bought brands have over your regular at-home products is the fact that they’re meant to be compatible with your pocket pussy as opposed to you hoping they work.

Either way, upgrading at a low cost is a no-brainer!

The Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer

Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer

Rod, meet Fleshlight.

Fleshlight’s Sleeve Warmer is a 5-minute wonder product that gets the pole as warm as 105 degrees. Considering a vagina’s internal temperature during sex is around 98 degrees, it makes the experience even more realistic!

The design is fairly simple – just a long pole with one power button. You just need to plug in the device and wait for the light to turn green while you put the pocket pussy on it. Once you get that metaphorical ding and the light goes out, rip your pants off, and get ready to hump!

Well, not literally, and you’ve probably been going commando anyway.

Anyway, this solution is great as it means there’s no risk of it melting your Fleshlight. Even more, it’ll keep it warm for at least 15 minutes, which means your body temperature will be raised enough to keep it snug for a longer time much later than any DIY method.

The best part? It’s just $29.95!

Conclusion – How To Warm Up A Fleshlight

To put it simply, whether you’re warming up your own pocket pussies or getting devices that do them for you, heating up your Fleshlights is a good idea and should be practiced whenever possible. It brings you one step closer to the real thing, alongside the realistic skin textures on the inside. It’s what you’re aiming for when buying a Fleshlight, isn’t it?

If you’re just starting out in the world of Fleshlights, maybe start with the DIY methods or even create your own. I’ve heard of everything from heat pads to placing it on a working Playstation as a way to make it cozier for your dick.

Whatever your method of temperature control, make sure you’re using your fingers to touch for heat first. Or, if you don’t want the hassle of designing your own devices, just opt for the ones already available on the market!

Have fun tuggin’!


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